Info:: I answered his personal on the Yahoo website.  He sounded perfect: 37 years old, project manager for a major firm, well educated and a body builder as well.  We met and had dinner one night and fell for each other quite quickly.  He pursued me via the phone and e mail every day.  Our lives became more and more involved as the months went on.
 
 I began to notice strange qualities about him.  He was terribly cheap and always aware of "keeping the score even".  If he paid for dinner one night, I was expected to pay the next.  If he changed the oil in my car as a favor, I was expected to pay for the oil!!  He said that was only fair.  He even wanted me to pay for his gas since he visited my home more than I visited his.
 
 When he bought me a "Mr. Coffee" for Valentines Day, I had enough.  I tried to break up with him, but he wouldn't have it.  He refused to return my house key and kept calling saying he loved me and wanted to marry me. He even waited in my backyard one night for four hours in freezing weather to see if I came home with anyone else that evening.
 
I told him I could never marry him and that it was over between us.  He asked if we could be friends and I said "yes".  He asked if I would have dinner with him the next night and I agreed.  We had a pleasant time and returned to my home.  That's when my nightmare began.  I asked him to leave and he was crushed.  I also asked him for my house key and he said he would return it if I paid him the $20.00 I owed him for changing the oil in my car.  I thought if by giving him the $20 I could get my key and feel safe, it was worth it.
 
He waited in his car and I returned with a $20 in my hand.  He tried to snatch it from my grip and refused to return my key.  I called him a  F--jerk!!  He leaped from his car and lifted me with one arm by my neck.  I was choking.  He then threw me to the ground and began kicking me.  I managed to stand up and he ran off.  I called the police and he was arrested for assault.  It has currently cost me over $5000.00 in legal fees to prosecute this guy and I feel victimized by the legal system all over again.  He will have a record when I get through with him so services such as this one can operate to serve us even better.  Don't hesitate to check him out and listen to you instincts.

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